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Built by a 15-year health anxiety survivor and a health anxiety therapist

Say Goodbye To Health Anxiety. Start Getting Your Life Back.

Steady is a therapist-designed community to help you through your spirals, heal from health anxiety, and get your life back.

Steady gives you a step-by-step method for the moment the fear hits, a small circle of people who get it, and trained moderators in your corner. So you can stop checking and start living.

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Be honest with yourself

How many of these happened to you this week?

Tap each one that's true for you

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If you ticked even two, you're not "dramatic." You're stuck in a loop that almost everyone with health anxiety gets stuck in.

And it's costing you. Sleep. Money. Evenings with the people you love. Years you won't get back.

It isn't your fault

The thing everyone gives you is the thing keeping you stuck.

Your doctor says you're fine. Your partner says you're fine. Google says it's probably nothing. Maybe.

Each one gives you a few hours of relief. Then the fear comes back louder, because reassurance teaches your brain that the fear was worth checking.

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1. A sensation
A twinge, a lump, a headache.
2. The spiral
Searching, checking, asking.
3. Brief relief
Until "but what if?"

Doctors are trained to rule things out. Friends are trained by love to say "you're fine." Nobody is teaching you what to do when the fear comes back.

That's the gap Steady was built to fill.

Wayne Harrel, founder of Steady
Why you can trust me

I'm Wayne. I lost 15 years to health anxiety.

I grew up curious, in a poor household, in a country where power cuts were normal. When I got the internet, I read everything. Health shows. Symptom lists. Then more symptom lists.

Learning about health slowly became worrying about my health.

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Then I found a real lump. It was benign. But my mind took the wrong lesson: "See? Something WAS there. Keep watching."

I spent thousands on tests and insurance I didn't need. I lost sleep. I missed moments with people I love because my attention was always on my body.

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People told me, "It's all in your head." They were right, and it didn't help one bit. Nobody told me what to do next.

Until I met Dr. Linda.

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Co-builder of Steady

Meet Dr. Linda.

Therapist specializing in health anxiety (hypochondria)

Dr. Linda was the first person who didn't reassure me and didn't dismiss me.

She told me something no one else had: "You don't need more certainty. You need a better response to uncertainty."

Then she showed me how. Week by week, she taught me to notice the loop, delay the check, sit with the "what if," and turn my attention back to my life.

She saved my life. I don't say that lightly.

But here's what bothered both of us. Specialized health anxiety therapy is hard to find. Waitlists are long. Sessions often cost more than most people can pay every week. Most people who need this help never get it.

So Dr. Linda and I made a promise: take what worked for me and put it somewhere anyone can reach, for less than the price of a single therapy session a month.

"I've watched people get their lives back from health anxiety. It isn't magic. It's a skill, and it can be learned. Steady is how we teach it to more people than I could ever see one at a time."

Dr. Linda

That's Steady. She saved my life. Now we're bringing the same help to you.

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What changes when you join

Picture your life 90 days from now.

Day 90 · a normal Tuesday
A sensation shows up, and you know exactly what to do instead of searching.
You sleep through the night more often than not.
You go to appointments you need, without dreading them for weeks.
Your partner and family stop being your 24/7 reassurance hotline.
You have a circle of people who know you and your story.
You make plans again, and actually show up for them.
How Steady works

Three things. Working together. Every day.

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1
Learn
The Steady 8 Step Process
The exact method Wayne used to break 15 years of checking, shaped with Dr. Linda. Short lessons, one step at a time.
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2
Practice
The Quick Calm app
When the fear hits at 2 a.m., open the app instead of the search bar. Guided exercises and audio for iOS and Android.
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3
Belong
Your Steady Circle
10 to 12 members and the same facilitator, twice a month. Plus a private community and trained moderators in between.
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See it for yourself

This is what 7 p.m. on a bad day looks like inside Steady.

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Rina T. · 6:40 pm

I have a scan on Thursday and I've already rehearsed every bad outcome. My hands keep reaching for my phone to search again.

J
Jonas M. · 6:52 pm

The night before a scan is the worst. Glad you wrote it here instead of carrying it alone.

Dr. Maya Host

We can't assess the symptom here, but we can help with the worry. Want to try Step 3 together for the wait before Thursday?

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Every one of them thinks they're the only one. Inside Steady, you'll find out you never were.

Everything you get

Your Steady membership

1
Community
Your private health-anxiety community
Talk about the fear, frustration, and exhaustion with people who understand. Private and Anonymous.
2
Live circle
Your Steady Circle
This is the closest thing to a real virtual therapy.* A personalized attention towards kicking health anxiety's butt!
3
Human support
Trained, compassionate moderators
Our hosts help keep discussions constructive, recognize possible reassurance loops, and gently guide members toward useful support. You won’t be shamed for asking for reassurance.
4
iOS & Android
The Quick Calm app
Available for iOS and Android. Tools to instantly help you calm your worries as they arrive!
5
Course
The Steady 8 Step Process
Here you will get exactly what I did to PERMANENTLY ELIMINATE my health anxiety once and for all. This powerful 8 step process will help you get your life back from constant rumination.
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1:1 help
Vetted Therapists and Coaches
Hire certified coaches to help you get personalized and private help! *Individual therapy is optional and paid for separately.

Plus 8 bonuses, free while you're a member.

No separate charge. No higher membership tier required.

Bonus #1
The Partner & Family Support Kit
Give them short lessons and conversation guides that explain what you’re experiencing and how to respond with compassion. You shouldn’t have to find all the words yourself.
Bonus #2
The Listen-First Welcome Session
Come in. Leave your camera off if you prefer. Listen. You can get comfortable before you speak.
Bonus #3
Seven Day Blitz
Follow a simple starting path: meet your host, find your circle, explore a tool, and choose a manageable next step. You’ll know where to begin.
Bonus #4
The Waiting-Period Toolkit
Use short audio, exercises, and planning prompts to support yourself through uncertainty while following your medical advice.
Bonus #5
Your Personal Setback Plan
Keep your useful practices, supportive contacts, and next steps together in one place. Have a plan to return to when thinking clearly feels harder.
Bonus #6
Monthly Life Goals
Optional, manageable activities around friendships, hobbies, work, and enjoyment. Choose something that matters to you and practice giving it your attention.
Bonus #7
Hire A Trained Coach
Opt into matching within facilitated circles, as available, with clear boundaries and moderator oversight.
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Bonus #8 · Wayne's book
How to Beat Health Anxiety
Quit the Checks, Ditch the "What Ifs": A Practical Guide for Lasting Relief
The full ebook, included. Fifteen years of checking, searching, and reassurance-seeking, and the steps that finally broke the cycle.

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Easy Pause & Return
Need a membership break? Retain your learning progress for when you return. Live access pauses, and your circle placement may change.
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Why now

Every month you wait is another month the fear decides your plans.

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Add up what health anxiety has already cost you. The tests. The appointments. The nights. Steady costs less than $ 1.5 a day, a third of what a cup of coffee costs. (yikes! Inflation)

Join during the founding window and $49/month is your rate for as long as you stay, even when the price goes up for everyone else.

Put it in perspective
Everything above costs about $1.60 a day. That's roughly a third of a cup of coffee.

Is your peace of mind worth a third of your daily coffee?

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How to get started

You can be inside in under five minutes.

1
Lock in your founding rate
Choose monthly or annual. Takes about a minute.
2
Pick your name and your circle
Use a pseudonym if you like. Choose a circle time that fits your week.
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Or just listen in. Camera off is fine. Nobody will call on you.

You don't have to be ready. You don't have to tell your story. You just have to take the first step.

I wish someone had handed me this fifteen years ago. I'm handing it to you now.

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